Donna's Writings

01/09/2018

Friendly American Knitters

In Our Knitting Roots Book Club on Facebook, over the last weeks, we’ve been discussing Timothy Snyder’s short book, On Tyranny: 20 Lessons from the 20th Century. This week’s chapter is “Lesson 12: Make Eye Contact and Small Talk.”

Rachel, who is leading the discussion says,

This lesson is a reminder of how simple resisting can be: Eye-contact and small talk. In totalitarian regimes, people withdraw because they are afraid. They don’t know who to trust, so they just avoid people. So, we can counteract that by connecting in small ways. This can also help those who are being ‘othered’ because we show them that we still see their humanity.

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We must keep our connections to other people alive and real. Be friendly when you’re at the grocery store or at a restaurant, or getting your car fixed, or picking up take out for dinner. That’s the American way. My friend, June Hall (also co-author of Lithuanian Knitting), always told me she felt like she was in a play when she visited the United States because everyone was so overtly friendly and made eye contact and small talk. She wasn’t used to telling the server at a restaurant how her day was going!

I think that is one reason that knitting groups and other kinds of crafts get togethers are really important. There’s one part in this book where Snyder talks about getting together to make craft beer. Of course, he’s a guy so he’s thinking of “crafts” that men typically do. But I think any kind of hobby get together can be equally important to holding society together.

There are two ways we can get together as knitters: 1) as a resistance knitting group (where politically like-minded knitters get together and 2) as a general knitting group (where all kinds of knitters get together). I think it’s still important to use knitting as a way to connect individuals of differing viewpoints and find common ground.

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One Comment
  1. Louise in Baton Rouge 01/09/2018 at 2:09 pm Reply

    Remember, too, that the English language takes a distant place in connecting with others. Smiles and gestures and body language speak volumes. And you can’t tell how much a person understands by how much they’re able to tell you back. Usually they’ll be able to understand much of what you say when their spoken vocabulary is still limited. I love receiving a woman’s wordless smiling eye-to-eye response when I compliment her on her highly decorated Muslim clothing–a smile, arms flung wide, “Beautiful!”–or on her tiny strollered baby–smile, arms out, “Beautiful!.” It’s this moment. It’s what we’ve got and the humans we share it with. Cherish it!

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